People often wonder why they could not get their point across? Well may be they have to start with connecting with their audience and figure out what kind of audience it is....Will they respond to wit? will they respond if you are direct? will they respond to short sentences? Are they dim and slow and you have to break it down? or are they type A where you have to be your persuasive best to get them to agree?
I guess it is more situational and it varies depending on the physical setting and the time of the day...Well, all I am saying is if you want your point across to another person(s) you might want to do a quick 30 sec self talk to figure out and gather certain facts about your audience.
Most scriptures, self help books and therapists which cost you money will probably tell you the same but I wouldn't waste my money or time...for me it just becomes a common sense item....There it is... a piece of my MIND!!!!!